SakshiHer Decision
The suggestions given by readers really helped her a lot. Tracey had made up her mind, she was not going to continue with the wedding if Gina was going to attend it. She did not want to see her. She asked Rick to take his mother’s name off from the guest list. She was no more invited.
The Wedding’s Off
Tracey shared her situation to the fellow Reddit users again. Tracey had asked her fiance to tell Gina that she was not invited to the wedding. However, Rick could not keep the promise. For the time being, they have canceled their wedding.
Still Together
Even though Tracey was deeply hurt by what had happened, she still was with Rick as she still loved him very much. “We are still together and remain engaged, but things are very, very, strained between us. The only thing that has really stopped me from leaving this relationship is that I love him from the bottom of my heart, and I can see how much this is hurting him. I really want to work past this if we can. We’re both committing to seeing a couple’s therapist,” said Tracey.
An “Accident”
The woman also shared the reaction of Gina when Rick talked to her about it. She wrote, “After FMIL ruined my dress, my fiance confronted her by telephone and demanded that she help cover the damages to the dress. She refused because she said it was an “accident” and she really was “just trying to help”. She literally tried to spin this as her F****** HELPING ME by, and I quote, “giving me a standard to aspire to” and she also f******* admitted that she just wanted to feel as “young and beautiful” as me. The worst part is that he believed her bu****.”
So Far So Bad
Tracey came back on Reddit after a few months to update the reader about her current situation. The only silver lining of this cloud was that now Rick was maintaining his distance from Gina. “My fiance has kept his end of the bargain; he’s had no contact with FMIL.” But how could be so sure of it? She added, “How do I know? I’m religiously checking his accounts.”
She’s Stalking Me
Gina did not stop, “My Ring app has gone off four times, all at odd hours of the night. It’s her. I have footage of her shoving notes under my door. Nasty notes shoved under the door demanding to talk to my fiance/accusing me of driving a wedge between them. Text messages asking me why I’m forbidding contact between fiance and his mother and how unnatural it is to stop a son from seeing his mother. I’m going to burn in hell and am a disgrace to womanhood. She’s come to my work.”